Why won't my wife initiate ?

She may feel that she is not a whole woman now that she had that hysterectomy, lots of women feel that way, altho some will get more into after wards since the fear of being pregnant is gone,seems in her case it's caused a lack of interest in , after that long she may feel less pion about it now, there is a limit to the ways you can make love to each other after all that time. Could be her med's doing that too, talk to her doctor about the lack of pion, she what he/she tell's you.